Hey ladies, being fabulous is not easy and we all add that extra ‘umph‘ to make sure that you look up to the part. Well, what if you found out that the men have certain issues with your weaves?
Yes darling, they have issues with your Brazilian, Peruvian, Malaysian,Indian, Colombian, American, Caribbean, Mongolian and Mexican weave. (if I didn’t add any brand, let me know)
Invisible Parting
Sometimes your parting can look like the path Moses created for the Israelite to pass from the Red Sea and believe me no man wants to see that. It is downright annoying to see that gap between your head. It’s no fault of yours that you have a stylist who didn’t hook you up with the right style,you have to move on and remove the weave as well.
Closure Parting
Yes boo thang!! He hates the way you try to pull your closure forward and that square you think nobody can see but he can. It’s not like he doesn’t want you and your weaves, just do it right.
Patting Your Weaves
Raise your hand if you know this is your specialty, it is not sexy to say the least. You’re trying to avoid scratching and you are just giving yourself a headache and them you tell him you have a headache which is from the excessive patting? Sister, calm down!
Smell Of Your Weaves
The natural elements that cause these things cannot be controlled but it can be reduced and you can avoid giving your boo or whoever asthma because your weave smells like a rat gave birth and then died on your hair. Try washing your hair before you fix your weave, dry your hair out every other day and four weeks is not the standard. Your hair needs to breathe.
Colour Of Your Weaves
Remember some of these factors differ with the men in question, some men would do subtle and some would go all out with the colours of the rainbow. It depends.
Dirty Scalp
Aunty dandruff, itchy scalp, dry scalp and dirty hair. If you feel like you won’t have time to properly take care of your hair then you shouldn’t be doing styles that would reveal all the dirtiness to the world. I’m sure your mama taught you how not to wash your dirty linen in public. Talk less of on your hair.
Unkempt Hair
If you have the time to have a weave on your head then you should also have the time, every morning to take care of it. Yes darling, nobody wants to see you like you just got out of bed in your office. Put your hair in order woman!
Interrupts SexÂ
Sex is quite important for the guys, this is not a joke. So your long weaves might get in the way of some body parts that he might be interested in. Some guys like the weaves, something to tug on, some don’t need the distraction.
Time Taken At The Salon
This list is in no particular order but if you spend the whole day at the salon, and expect him to understand then he plays for the other team. I’m not saying you should rush your stylist. Just make sure you have his time in one way during salon day, Yes ladies, you know you can.
Now this list is clearly based on different people’s opinion, so it’s not set in stone. But there are some clear faults that you can avoid and reduce the list of things he doesn’t want to tell you and start an argument.
Dear guys, you probably spoke to her the first day you saw her because of all this. Don’t try changing her, accept her and her weaves!!!!!!
