The month of Ramadan is now upon all Muslims, fit and able to fast. However, unmarried Muslims encounter different forms of changes in their lifestyles, five important things to avoid during Ramadan has been listed below.
While traditional dating is not sanctioned, the existence of unmarried couples is a reality. To guide these couples during Ramadan, here are seven original directives rooted in Quranic wisdom:
Avoid Unnecessary Touches, Sexual Intercourse
What the Quran says: “And do not approach unlawful sexual intercourse. Indeed, it is ever an immorality and is evil as a way.” (Quran 17:32)
While wedded couples enjoy physical intimacy after sunset, unmarried partners should refrain from such acts at all times during Ramadan, recognizing the sanctity of their relationship in the eyes of Allah.
Quranic Wisdom: “And those who avoid the major sins and immoralities, only [committing] slight ones. Indeed, your Lord is vast in forgiveness. He was most knowing of you when He produced you from the earth.” (Quran 53:32)
Steering clear of gatherings where sinful acts occur aligns with Islamic principles. Unmarried couples should abstain from such gatherings during Ramadan, allowing the holy month to become a refuge from activities deemed displeasing to Allah.
Avoid Flirt, Or Using Vain Words
People will mix with other people, especially friends who are not fasting. However, no matter how tempted you are towards speaking, you should avoid using vain words and languages that are not under Islamic principles.
While conversing is generally permitted, flirting is not. Unmarried people should minimize excessive flirtation, especially during Ramadan, fostering an environment of purity and adherence to Islamic principles.
Avoid Not Dressing Right
What the Quran Says: “O children of Adam! We have bestowed upon you clothing to conceal your private parts and as adornment. But the clothing of righteousness – that is the best. That is from the signs of Allah that perhaps they will remember.” (Quran 7:26)
Both men and women should don modest attire, refraining from the allure of immodesty. For the unmarried and married Muslims, adopting modest clothing during Ramadan encourages an atmosphere of piety and self-reflection.
Avoid Dates, Or Unlawful Visitation
While dating is not sanctioned in Islam, unmarried people may engage in it. During Ramadan, minimizing dates and hanging out helps curb sinful acts, creating a space for introspection and restraint.
However, it is better to avoid this in its entirety during the holy month. Islam has created basic principles to carry out all things, after Ramadan you can engage in lawful dating following Islamic injunctions.
Prayerful Priorities: Focusing on Spiritual Connection
What the Quran says: “Recite, [O Muhammad], what has been revealed to you of the Book and establish prayer. Indeed, prayer prohibits immorality and wrongdoing, and the remembrance of Allah is greater.” (Quran 29:45)
Unmarried people should prioritize prayers during Ramadan, recognizing that neglecting this essential act can impact their spiritual growth. Devoting time to prayers fosters spiritual development and fortifies their connection with the divine.
Parting shots.
What the Quran says: “O you who have believed, decreed upon you is fasting as it was decreed upon those before you that you may become righteous.” (Quran 2:183)
Fasting during Ramadan is obligatory for physically capable Muslims. Unmarried couples must not miss a single day of fasting for non-essential reasons, underscoring the significance of adherence to Islamic principles during this sacred month.
As unmarried Muslim couples or single individuals embark on a spiritual voyage during Ramadan, these original directives, rooted in Quranic wisdom, offer a path to minimize sinful acts and strengthen their connection with Allah.
May this sacred month be a time of profound reflection, restrained pursuits, and spiritual flourishing for all.
