Sustaining a relationship during this current time can be challenging, but understanding its major strengths and potential weaknesses can provide priceless assistance, which can determine the future of your love life.

This quiz is designed to help you and your partner assess the key aspects of your relationship; it offers an idea of how you both should approach things. Importantly, it gives an outlook on how well you’re positioned for the long haul.

Quiz Sections and Questions

1. Communication

– How often do you and your partner openly discuss your feelings and thoughts?
– A) All the time
– B) Frequently
– C) Occasionally
– D) Rarely

– When conflicts arise, how do you typically resolve them?
– A) We calmly discuss and find a compromise
– B) We argue but eventually make up
– C) We avoid the topic and hope it resolves itself
– D) We have explosive arguments that rarely get resolved

2. Trust

– How much do you trust your partner on a scale of 1 to 5 (1 being not at all, 5 being completely)?
– 1
– 2
– 3
– 4
– 5

– Do you feel secure in your partner’s commitment to the relationship?
– A) Always
– B) Most of the time
– C) Sometimes
– D) Rarely

3. Respect

– How often do you and your partner respect each other’s opinions and differences?
– A) Always
– B) Most of the time
– C) Occasionally
– D) Rarely

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– Do you feel valued and appreciated by your partner?
– A) Yes, always
– B) Most of the time
– C) Sometimes
– D) Not really

4. Emotional support

– How supportive is your partner when you’re going through a tough time?
– A) Extremely supportive
– B) Mostly supportive
– C) Occasionally supportive
– D) Not supportive

– How well do you and your partner understand each other’s emotional needs?
– A) Very well
– B) Well enough
– C) Not very well
– D) Not at all

5. Shared goals and values

– How aligned are your long-term goals and values with your partner’s?
– A) Completely aligned
– B) Mostly aligned
– C) Somewhat aligned
– D) Not aligned at all

– How often do you discuss your future together?
– A) Frequently
– B) Occasionally
– C) Rarely
– D) Never

6. Intimacy and affection

– How satisfied are you with the level of intimacy in your relationship?
– A) Very satisfied
– B) Satisfied
– C) Somewhat satisfied
– D) Not satisfied

– How often do you and your partner show affection (hugs, kisses, kind words)?
– A) Daily
– B) Several times a week
– C) Occasionally
– D) Rarely

Scoring and Interpretation

Scores:

A = 4 points
B = 3 points
C = 2 points
D = 1 point

Total your points for each section to get an overall score.

Interpretation:

– 40-48 points: Your relationship is strong and well-positioned for the future. Keep up the good work!
– 30-39 points: Your relationship is generally solid but has some areas that could benefit from improvement. Consider discussing these aspects with your partner.
– 20-29 points: There are several areas in your relationship that need attention. Working together on these issues can help strengthen your bond.
– Below 20 points: Your relationship may be facing significant challenges. It might be helpful to seek support from a relationship counsellor or therapist.

Lastly

Taking this quiz can provide you and your partner with a clearer understanding of your relationship’s strengths and weaknesses. Use the insights gained to foster open communication, build trust, and work on areas that need improvement. Remember, all relationships require effort and commitment, and addressing issues early on can help ensure a happy, lasting partnership.